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i am mad at myself because i broke my promise. :x
i SWORE to myself that i wasn't going to fall in love before college, that i would wait until during or even after college. I SWORE that i would not be distracted and would work hard to get into a good college.
but now, i have very much fallen in love, but i do not have the guts to tell him. I am sure that he has no idea, and i would rather keep this friendship going whether then push him away. i am positive he does not feel this way towards me as well. he is not close to me, so i can't speak to him or anything. it sounds confusing i know, but it is all the more frustrating that i am straying from my school work. I am so distracted now. WHY did i let myself do this :evil: :x

Now, now. Don't be so mad at yourself. It's not like you get to choose when it comes to this stuff, anyway.
Given the situation as you described it, the best thing you can do is to forget and move on. Ain't easy, I know. But take it easy and it will be fine. Try to use work/school/fun as a distraction. Love comes, love goes. :)
Or, of course, you can always gather your guts, tell him and see what happens. Who knows, maybe you actually stand more chance than you think. ;)
Whichever you choose, good luck.

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Today at work, two guys found it funny to throw big pallets of paper at each other and one of these guys was sitting next to me. The other one wasn't good at aiming and hit me three times. His shots were quite powerful, the third one even deformed my glasses. :evil:

I'm actually a quiet guy, but I got mad and walked up to him and grabbed him so we had a little "conversation". I'm rather weak phisically so I just turned away and decied to leave it at that since I was afraid of that fool beating me up. :evil:

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Kuborion wrote:
AmoSLEEP wrote:
i am mad at myself because i broke my promise. :x
i SWORE to myself that i wasn't going to fall in love before college, that i would wait until during or even after college. I SWORE that i would not be distracted and would work hard to get into a good college.
but now, i have very much fallen in love, but i do not have the guts to tell him. I am sure that he has no idea, and i would rather keep this friendship going whether then push him away. i am positive he does not feel this way towards me as well. he is not close to me, so i can't speak to him or anything. it sounds confusing i know, but it is all the more frustrating that i am straying from my school work. I am so distracted now. WHY did i let myself do this :evil: :x

Now, now. Don't be so mad at yourself. It's not like you get to choose when it comes to this stuff, anyway.
Given the situation as you described it, the best thing you can do is to forget and move on. Ain't easy, I know. But take it easy and it will be fine. Try to use work/school/fun as a distraction. Love comes, love goes. :)
Or, of course, you can always gather your guts, tell him and see what happens. Who knows, maybe you actually stand more chance than you think. ;)
Whichever you choose, good luck.



THANK you Kuborion. You were a greater help then you might think. it was the first time anything like that happened to me so i was a little confused. thanks again :)

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Having to work 6am - 4pm three days on the trot next week and then work a 12-11pm next Sunday :x :x :x :x :x :x, I'm gonna be knackered by Sunday :roll:

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Angry at the way people around me have been behaving lately..

Angry at that people I thought were friends simply could turn their back and make me regret ever letting them in my life.

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well we are talking about the poets here..duh .. not all people can see and feel "the magic" and "the purpose" lol
they are simply stupid ..
as for the poets-satriani thing..lol its like compering disneyland with the vietnam war.. lool

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I'm really angry at the moment. :evil: :evil:

And I want to know at least why I'm angry.....I just don't know :x


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tisovcik_rasto wrote:
I'm really angry at the moment. :evil: :evil:

And I want to know at least why I'm angry.....I just don't know :x


Something must have happened. Just don't be mad at me. :roll:

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Something must have happened. Just don't be mad at me. :roll:


Don't worry, I'm ok already :)
I couldn't be mad about any of you guys here. You're just great :roll:

*hugs everyone who wants a hug* :P

(....but I still don't know what made me so angry :| )


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i want a hug :lol:

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i want a hug :lol:


*hugs Raven* :)


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can I have a hug too? :oops:


I'm somehow angry at a friend of mine (a friend of my brother actually)... who seems to be doing anything in his power to make my life complicated, to make me anxious.
I don't know why he does it.. I guess just for the sake of seeing me go mad.. I don't know, I don't know... what the hell is on his mind???and I cannot react anyway, because I never know what he would do next time :x man... what the hell does he want from me????

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Lisa wrote:
can I have a hug too? :oops:


I'm somehow angry at a friend of mine (a friend of my brother actually)... who seems to be doing anything in his power to make my life complicated, to make me anxious.
I don't know why he does it.. I guess just for the sake of seeing me go mad.. I don't know, I don't know... what the hell is on his mind???and I cannot react anyway, because I never know what he would do next time :x man... what the hell does he want from me????


Of course you can *hugs Lisa* :)

It's easy to say, but... don't worry about him. There are other people who are much more worth of your attention. Forget about him and cheer up - I believe that there are many reasons for it. Hope it will be ok soon :wink:

*hugs Lisa one more time*


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thank you so much :)
*hugs back tisovcik_rasto*

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Just like every christmas dad gets worse than his usual bitchy self to a full out asshole.. but this year he seems a Lot worse.. i dunno if i can stand it.. i came home from one of he best nights of my life to have my mom and sister crying in the livingroom and him in the basement on the computer.. they've never cried before and it lasted so long.. i wanna know what he said to them cuz he'd never PHYSICALLY Hurt anybody but he'd say shit bad enough to tear out their heart and feed it to them these days.. fuck him..

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sorry to hear that, Raven :(
I know how it feels, because my father is exactly the same.

and anyway that's something tipical of Xmas: everybody says "have a merry Christmas with your family and etc.", but truth is a lot of people get even worse with people in their family these days

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Yeah.. i just hope he cools down..

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*hugs Lisa & The Raven.*

Hope things work out for both of you. 8)

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*hugs The Raven and Lisa*
hope your Christmas won't get any worse than it already is.

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*hugs*

thankyou.. and best wishes to everyone :)

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*hugs* thanks b'ys, have a Merry Christmas and some happy holidays, may the New Year bring you joy and luck and may the world spin for your fortune

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Why the hell am I so stupid? :x


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I don't think you're stupid, tr! But in case it makes you feel any better, I'm feeling pretty stupid right now (and angry at) myself. You'd think that I'd have learned by now not to be so damned trusting of people, right? Wrong! I've always felt that if you're nice to someone, 9 times out of 10 they'll be nice to you; it's that 10th time that always throws me for a loop, ya know? I'm not usually overly-sensitive, but when someone deliberately slights me and I'm not sure why, it makes me wonder what I could have possibly done to make that person commit such an obvious slight? It never fails to leave me scratching my head in confusion. :?

I think it's worse when the slight is couched in friendly terms, but you're well aware that something not so friendly is meant. Makes me feel very uncomfortable. I know I should just shrug it off; you can't win 'em all, right? But after having dealt with very nice people on a regular basis, it always comes as such a surprise that there might be someone who seems nice & friendly, but in reality really isn't.

I really hate to approach every potential friendship or acquaintanceship like a hard-core cynic; you don't make a lot of friends that way. The few times this has happened to me has left me second-guessing myself and becoming overly-cautious. Neither of which is in my nature.

After reading what I just wrote I decided I probably just need a good night's sleep. :oops:

Oh well; had to vent. Live and learn.


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tisovcik_rasto wrote:
Why the hell am I so stupid? :x


**hugs Rasto*** YOU are not stupid! If you need to talk, just pm me. I'm here to listen as a friend.

**hugs you again**

Dia,
I hope you feel better in the morning.. :)


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@tisovcik_rasto: why do you say that? I'm sure you're not stupid at all

@Dia: I hope you've had a good night's sleep, and that it helped

*sending hugs to both of you* :)

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Thank you *hugs*

It was just that I spent whole day (11 hours) with physics(electric charge) and I still can't understand it. Final exams are in a four months, I don't know what to do :?

Thank you my friends *hugs again*


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tisovcik_rasto wrote:
It was just that I spent whole day (11 hours) with physics(electric charge) and I still can't understand it. Final exams are in a four months, I don't know what to do :?

Don't worry, I bet you understand more of it then I do... :wink:

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Thanks all for the encouraging words! Much appreciated. And yes, a good night's sleep did help! That and the fact that I received a very sweet and kind message from a friend when I woke up this morning.

My faith in humanity has been restored! :wink: :)

Tr; wish I could help, but all I know of physics is what I've heard in lectures and programs by Dr. Neil DeGrasse Tyson (astrophysicist) and Dr. Michio Kaku (theoritcal physicist). The good doctors are great at simplifying physics so that even dummies like me can understand! :wink:

I've found that when I want to know more about something, going online and doing a search usually helps. It can even help put you in touch with a professional on the subject who's willing to answer your questions (such as the good doctors mentioned above). Amazing (and kind of scary) what you can find on the Internetz.

Thanks again, friends!

Nuthin' but love for y'all! <3


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